'She paid the entire amount': Wholesome Boss Pays for Employee’s Surgery After Employee Cancels It Due to Lacking Finances

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    Font - Posted by u/AmongWilderFlowers 17 hours ago How do I (32F) thank my boss (67F) for paying for my surgery?
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    Font - The shortest version of this story is that I (32F) need a surgery and found out days before it that the cost was going to be exponentially more than I anticipated and I had to cancel it. I'm struggling with my health and it was a hard decision to cancel surgery, but it was not at all feasible financially.
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    Font - My boss (67F) saw me logged on at work the day of my scheduled surgery (I forgot to tell her I canceled it and would be working), and she called me to ask what happened.
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    Font - Essentially, she is paying for my surgery. She's able to do so, she's an honorable and generous person, and she insisted. I can't describe to you all what a gift this is to me and by extension, my family. I will be healthy and not massively in debt. It could not have worked out better.
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    Font - But how do properly thank her for this? Saying thank you isn't enough. Writing a card isn't enough. I love my job and she treats me VERY well. I have no intention of leaving. But just being a good employee isn't really a "thank you" either.
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    Font - She said someday when I'm older and have more money that I could pay it forward and help someone (and I intend to! But that's a long ways away). How would you express your gratitude for such a generous gift? I never thought I'd be on the receiving end of this kind of generosity, especially from a successful woman like her.
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    Font - stregagorgona. 17 hr. ago I think a letter sharing your gratitude would actually be a lovely gesture. You could also make a donation in her honor to a medical assistance non- profit. I wouldn't give her anything gift-like. 1.5k Reply Share
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    Font - LadyMargolotta 16 hr. ago I always think a heartfelt handwritten letter is a nice way to go for big stuff like this. It gives them a physical reminder of something good they did. Tell her how grateful you are and
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    Font - how much it means to you, and assure her that someday you'll take the opportunity to pay it forward as she asked. Then let it go, because thanking someone over and over can make them feel awkward.
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    Font - Another thing is that she's 67, so presumably near retirement. When she does retire, see if she wants to keep in touch and spend some time together socially now and then. Retired
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    Font - people can sometimes end up feeling lonely, so having a friend in her older years might be a nice way to repay her. (Obvs not if she doesn't want to hang out with you lol)
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    Font - Continue to be a good employee, but don't think you can never quit your job because of this. If she's a good and kind person, this generous gift doesn't have strings attached, especially a string tying you to your desk! Leaving your job for whatever reason isn't betraying or harming
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    Font - your employer, it's just a normal part of the working world. I know you said you love your job and don't want to leave and that's great, just wanted to mention it in case things change in future. She's done a wonderful kind thing for you, but she hasn't purchased your fealty like a feudal serf. 431 Reply Share
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    Font - AmongWilderFlowers OP. 9 hr. ago It seems like a handwritten letter is the most popular idea, and I'll definitely be doing that. She is probably 3- 5 years from retirement, and she is someone I really look
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    Font - up. I definitely would like to keep in touch if that interests her. I'll for sure keep this in mind. And thank you for adding your last paragraph. It is true that I really do like what I do,
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    Font - but I think she would agree- she is giving me a gift, not trying to hold it over me. Thanks for your input! Reply Share 34
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    Font - Brickthedummydog 14 hr. ago IMO I'd invite her to dinner. You said she is benefitting your family, meeting them and getting to see how far her generous gesture is reaching is a good way. 49 Reply Share
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    Font - Initial-Minute-7172 16 hr. ago Ya Basic That's a really grand gesture! You're very lucky to have a boss like her, definitely should write a thank you letter to show her your gratitude. If you know how to bake, knit, draw, paint nail polish, anything that you can handmade would be great.
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    Font - Keep doing your job, she obviously wouldn't just do this for a bad employee. Of course don't feel guilty and push yourself too hard at work but keep your performance steady, pay extra attention to your work.
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    Font - And don't forget what she said, one day you will have the opportunity to help another person, when that day comes you should remember what she did for you and do the same thing for someone else. 35 Reply Share
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    Font - AmongWilderFlowers OP. 9 hr. ago It's truly the kindest gesture, and I never thought I'd ever be on the receiving end of something like this. It's going to improve so many aspects of my personal and working life. I do some baking and
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    Font - some needlework; I could make something handmade. Thank you for this suggestion. Handmade may show more genuine gratitude than just any gift. I'll be actively looking for a way to help someone else in the future. There's no way I'll forget her kindness! Reply Share 8

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